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Thursday, April 10, 2014

Eh, Haters. Right?

I'm what you call a modernized tramp?
Well, not the sort of tramp you, and I seem to know.  One the meaning to popularized tune by Lorenz Hart ( if you're not familiar to songs meaning please read
I'm one with a tone stuck in her head, and Plato in her hand. One that never gossips, and one that never cares who she, and he is with, one never spread shame, or dare cast blame, on the stupid, the dumb, and the dull-witted. << I love it when I rhyme

 Many things don't escape my notice!

Its this trend, that's a vermin a disguise.., You've heard the contagious noun,that surfaces everywhere. "Hater", or better yet "#Hater#; now as a substitute, the  disingenuous continuum "negative energy".
Zeus, do people giving people these titles, nowadays.

It's become prominent for our society to feed off of haters, that feast off the idea of superiority, and inferiority complex. On the other hand, the villain sometimes being blamed for miscommunication. Or, in some case, the noun comes alive.
I want to take a step back, and truly unravel the fraudulent layers of the "Hater". Once I simplify the true identity of it,  you might start question the underlining simpatico.
Just, ah, a misunderstood public quandary, I'd say.

Honestly, and when you hear why people dislike certain individuals; You have to sit back for a moment, take in the information, try to digest it, if you can. And then, boom, you'll realise, it's the dumbest thing you've ever heard in your life-- --I'll let you be the judge of that:
The perpetrator speaks 
"She/He thinks she's better than me" ( what you're going to hate everyone who thinks that. Well you'll be hating everyone you know)
I don't like how she looks at me ( women are good with this one)
"I don't like how she/he speaks to me "
"They're weird, I don't like them" 
"Your ideas conflict mines, I don't like you" 
"Your skin color is different from mines, I don't like you,"
"You're dumber than me, I don't like you",(instead of helping you, I'll berate you)
"Your in a different social class, I don't like you"

Now let's hear the Victim. Hey, there's always two sides
You're going to love this one "I have designer clothes , so she/he must be hating on me"
"My weave is the bomb. She Just hatin" ( Do they still say the bomb? lol, I hope not)
"I fu*** hotter women/men than you"( thank you Kanye, and almost every rapper for that one)
She hatin, because I'm prettier ( oh, this one is a classic)
That's the best I can come up. If you know more, please inform me.
And we teach children to be civilised. Wow, the  contradictory is not escaping me here.

We've gotten ourselves to the point, of a simple disagreement, defines you as a hater. Albeit, the one being hated on, bask in the glory of being admired. Sorry to say this, but WTF?
My Experience
I don't hate people for these superficial issues. In fact, I really don't even care, what most things people take seriously.
 Knowing me, I'll just laugh. Think nothing of it.
So when I hear people complain about these flaws of others, I'm baffled, I mean as human begins we want to all be accepted, yet automatically, ostracize people for a behavior that we don't understand, however, on the flip side you'll want to be accepted for your originality.
Truly a double standard

Don't worry I been in these situations. I was that girl whom had haters,  and a few times got caught what you'll call hating. 
But then I grew out of it. It served no purpose. 
Nowadays, If I dislike someone my reasons makes sense. If not, I will disregard my feelings. 
However, if someone dislikes me, there is nothing I can do it about. I'll never whine, and seek pity for it. Most chances likely, those reasons I named, are their excuses.
And, for that reason, I don't care. Judge me on my person, not a shallow conclusion. 
Words Of Wisdom
Moribidly, this has become an epidemic.
See the problem is we are fighting each other over petty things. This is why, whomever is on top, can stay there, because the peasants will fight each other over the crumbs. 
Their need to feed their lost ego. Yet, they're ego is getting in the way of tremendous growth. That's why nouns such as "Hater" grows. 

And it's not one sided, its both parties.

I don't hate people, I might not like their ideas, or selfishness, but I don't hate them. Whenever, hate becomes part of the pictures, it's when individuals do atrocious things to others. However, I realise, they're just a product of their environment.
Rambling, sorry

To sum it up, never do I, go below the belt, or I will ruin their chances, not then, or now. Unlike most individuals, I can say very nice things about people I detest the most.

There is always a hint of respect, in my dislike.
So next time you're being hated on, or if you're being the hater, ask your is it really worth all of this? >>>>>>
Amour Toujours 
Nailah D'arcy 

Saturday, March 22, 2014

Love is Average, Intellect is Average, And so is the Idea of Beauty...?

Believe it or not, Angelina Jolie, is not a figment of the golden ratio.
I've come across, in the Nyx of the night, the golden ration.
 I took it upon myself to take the simple quizzes, of whom I believe to be beautiful, and whom I thought was so-so, at the perfect human face, and brain games.national geographic. ( which are fun, and informative sites. If I might add)
While the men, and women they put forth were pretty, but in my humble opinion, not the extraordinaire beauties, that will stop me in my tracks.

Most of the ones I choosed, never matched up to the societal ruling. My average grade was a D. I was told I need to check on what's hot, and not.
My taste is exquisite! haha
Yet, the ones that were normally chosen, I was baffled. Thinking " this is what they consider beautiful. Whoa. I'm thinking, 'I see men, and women that epitomized these features, almost every day'.
And, if you know me, you know I hate normal. I hate anything that promotes normality. Why would you want something, that everyone can have. Something that everyone presents?
I don't get it!

But enough, about what I like. It's time for me to tape into as to why normalcy is so instinctively accepted.
Well, we'll a few steps back, and deal with part of the problem that's in front of us, now.
Yes that thing that's called... beauty.
As Romantique Innocence uncovers beauty, in the name of beauty. The divine proportion have now evolved me... 
Let's see if the Divine Proportion, is really that Divine?
Luca Pacioli Picuture Link
The Antiquity Of The Golden Ration?
I can't go into a subject, without speaking on its creator, yet, there are only two collectives that can take claim to PHI. Which is easy to guess, but, I'll say it anyway, the Egyptians, and the Greeks.
Surprising, huh? 
However, PHI, is formerly known as the creation of The Greeks. And named after Phidias, a Greek sculptor, painter, and architect.
Whomever was the first to come upon phi, we'll never truly know.
Nonetheless, a series of events of phi, went through a variety of great thinkers, and with great thinkers, comes new ideas.

With Phi in mind, came along with the perception of what is 'beautiful'. 

The Divine proportion didn't become the figment of beauty until, The Renaissance, by the father of accounting, Luca Pacioli, and also with the helped of Leonardo da Vinci illustrations, that never seems to escapes us. 
 You've seen that drawings.
Yeah, that one.
Crito of Alopece"In faith, my opinion is that beauty is to be found quite as well in a horse or an ox or in any number inanimate things. I know, at any rate, that a shield may be beautiful, or a sword, or a spear."Crito goes on to say, beauty is here to serve our needs. While the Golden Proportion doesn't just remain in the humane form, this proportion is in art, architectural, and nature( just a few examples).
The golden ration may esteem in more than one way. So as humans we look for perfection that can not be accomplished, but the need to believe that something average is special. We're all hopeless Don Quixote..

Although, I didn't do the calculations.
I'm sure Rihanna  doe not have the ratio, 

but formerly known as a beauty. 
Has The Divine, Come Down Its Pedestal?
Our human psyche tries its hardest to find the Divine proportion, yet there have been recent studies to challenge this notion.
According to Pamela Pallett and Stephen Link of UC San Diego and Kang Lee of the University of Toronto. 
They don't believe that the golden ration holds, any special qualities, it just averaging from what we see on a regulatory basis.

While Meisner, Gary B, believes the golden ratio, is still indeed special. Because, simply their new calculations still holds the prominent equation, of the golden ratio, however, with a keen observation, notes that their discoveries are close to "relative attractiveness"  ( which is something, I discussed in: Are You In Love With Yourself? )

Which I can agree with
As the Greeks say " No one is good for our family, expect our family."
In my humble opinion, I believe the golden ration is unique, however, not for the reason you, and I have been told. But for merely the usage of its versatility. In other words, what we may know now is primitive, but ironically the golden ration may hold more than, just the simplicity of math, and beauty. ( Just pondering)

Ideal beauty gradual changes in each age group, not instantly, but moves toward an evolving transition. Just as math, and every generation. 
Beauty Is controversial, But why?
"A Modern Venus,
or a Lady of the Present Fashion in the state of nature 1786"
Walpole, Horace
Statistics of beauty have been incessant challenged, constantly.
 Just take a minute, and google: beauty: watch youtube, the endogeneity is a complex matter, that turns people into a state of frenzy.

Beauty has an intrinsic value, of what's in and not, what is useless, and what is prized.
We all know beauty is subjective, and variate through different societies, yet it still boils our blood.

I'm not at all bias. I've read the many comments . Individuals exacerbating their frustrations to our westernized views.
I agree, it's wrong to holds someone value to their physical attributes.....
But then I have to say, who cares what other's think of you. You don't need anyone's approval, but your own. Which I stated many times before. 

One note, I'd like to add before I leave this topic. Whenever beauty is the topic of choice , people tend to get very sensitive. Indiviuals fight more on the topic of vanity, then the rights of human suffering. And whenever, they speak on suffering, it only relates to themselves, Hmm...
Maybe if we let go of this selfishness, then vanity like this, may dissolve.

We can't win, if people are slandering individuals like this >>10 signs that you're ugly
If you contribute to the problem, you can't complain about anything, at all. 
Hatred only comes from hatred.

Beautiful Words
 I read some interesting, and controversial findings by Dr. Satoshi Kanazawa, Dr. Stephen Marquardt, Angela M. Griffin, Judith H. Langlois, and more.
Listening to a variety of views, fairly.
I can't fight people on their opinion. I can only fight them on hypocrisy, and mistreatment.
There are some things I agreed with, and other things I don't agree with at all. But I also found out about my way of thinking of beauty. Things that I didn't like, things that will become vapid to my ideals.
Admittedly, my vanity is shown in Mlle Flamboyant, and Dream Guy, my externals blogs. However, it would also be strange to do profiles, on random people. Very.
( Hint: pictures of celebrities are also subjective. Altering photos will grant the art of illusion of beauty)

But the lingering question still hangs over me, what makes something/person alluring?
Sorry, science cannot answer that question for me. Maybe for some, but not me.  Or the most famous quote, Beauty is in the eye of the beholder (Zeus, do I get tired of hearing that one)

As I am a woman, only of tangible words. Ah, how I love them. They're like a beautiful woman, with or without make-up. The best woman of them all. Nonetheless, math has never been my forte.
 I'll leave you with my own equation.

As I stated above, I've I never had a taste for, average. So I for sure don't have a taste for average beauty.
In conclusion, we all have something that the next doesn't have.
The golden ratio = average
While we all = Beauty
So together we make perfection
Maybe that's the true equation of the golden ratio..

Amour Toujours 
Nailah D'arcy

Special Note
*Arithmetic has never been my strongest point. So if anyone can explain, in plain english the golden ratio to me. You deserve a Nobel Prize.*

Socrates By Anthony Gottlieb


Romantique Innocence By Nailah D'arcy